It requires a bit of social acuity to understand who's really focussed
and doesn't want to be disturbed, and who'd be quite happy for a pleasant chat.
An easy trick to gather
intelligence on what they are doing before initiating a conversation, is to walk past them, maybe to get a drink or on the way to the
bathroom, and glance at their screen. If you see the familiar colours
of Facebook, Twitter, Reddit, YouTube or other time-sinks -- and they
are on display surprisingly often -- you can be reasonably sure that
your approach will be well received.
Body language gives clues too ... bobbing along to a rhythm? ... no,
they are not working on P vs NP or the latestst deep neural net
convolutional reinforcement learning ... And if you can hear the
music emanating from their headphones they aren't highly alert to a
job requiring deep thinking either.
The other day I went to my neighborhood coffee shop an hour before work to just have a coffee, sit, and reflect. No computer, just me and a pour over.
I jumped into conversation with a few others at the bar. Sometimes I forget one can be in a coffee shop without a screen. It was much easier to focus on conversation and sensual things like the tasting notes of my coffee, instead of the nagging fomo of email and social notifications.
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Good point.
It requires a bit of social acuity to understand who's really focussed and doesn't want to be disturbed, and who'd be quite happy for a pleasant chat.
An easy trick to gather intelligence on what they are doing before initiating a conversation, is to walk past them, maybe to get a drink or on the way to the bathroom, and glance at their screen. If you see the familiar colours of Facebook, Twitter, Reddit, YouTube or other time-sinks -- and they are on display surprisingly often -- you can be reasonably sure that your approach will be well received.
Body language gives clues too ... bobbing along to a rhythm? ... no, they are not working on P vs NP or the latestst deep neural net convolutional reinforcement learning ... And if you can hear the music emanating from their headphones they aren't highly alert to a job requiring deep thinking either.
That's also a good point.
The other day I went to my neighborhood coffee shop an hour before work to just have a coffee, sit, and reflect. No computer, just me and a pour over.
I jumped into conversation with a few others at the bar. Sometimes I forget one can be in a coffee shop without a screen. It was much easier to focus on conversation and sensual things like the tasting notes of my coffee, instead of the nagging fomo of email and social notifications.