I choose to make donations to charitable foundations instead of cash to street panhandlers.
But when someone asks me for money on the street, I almost always respond to them by saying "Sorry" or similar. I've always felt it rude to just walk by ignoring their presence. And probably over 95% of the time the person answers back something like "ok, have a great weekend" or "Thanks anyway".
That said, I think many people that walk past without making eye contact do so not because they think the person begging is inferior, but likely because they're hiding in their own shame.
I've seen similar behavior on crowded subways, where able-bodied people avert eye contact with the pregnant lady or senior citizen who is standing, wanting both to keep their seat but hoping someone else gives up their own seat.
Even donation to charitable foundations is dubious to me. I have no idea where/what they are going to use the money, even though they promise on certain contribution. In personal opinion, instead of providing financial aids, i would say providing working opportunity is better for their future, as they will be more skillful and independent.
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I choose to make donations to charitable foundations instead of cash to street panhandlers.
But when someone asks me for money on the street, I almost always respond to them by saying "Sorry" or similar. I've always felt it rude to just walk by ignoring their presence. And probably over 95% of the time the person answers back something like "ok, have a great weekend" or "Thanks anyway".
That said, I think many people that walk past without making eye contact do so not because they think the person begging is inferior, but likely because they're hiding in their own shame.
I've seen similar behavior on crowded subways, where able-bodied people avert eye contact with the pregnant lady or senior citizen who is standing, wanting both to keep their seat but hoping someone else gives up their own seat.
Even donation to charitable foundations is dubious to me. I have no idea where/what they are going to use the money, even though they promise on certain contribution. In personal opinion, instead of providing financial aids, i would say providing working opportunity is better for their future, as they will be more skillful and independent.
Many charitable organizations are rated (by % of dollar donated that makes it to the actual cause) by independent organizations.
At least for bigger outfits, it's easy to find out how your money is spent.