Here's some better advice: don't "should" all over your self. The kinds of toxic relational advice I see on here might make sense if you have a very certain kind of family but for a lot of us a funeral is just an excuse for folk to play act their version of regret. To thine own self be true, if you don't want to go, don't go, if you do, then do. One size does NOT fit all and truly, "bye bye!" if you don't understand and respect that, you're just not worth the time.
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Here's some better advice: don't "should" all over your self. The kinds of toxic relational advice I see on here might make sense if you have a very certain kind of family but for a lot of us a funeral is just an excuse for folk to play act their version of regret. To thine own self be true, if you don't want to go, don't go, if you do, then do. One size does NOT fit all and truly, "bye bye!" if you don't understand and respect that, you're just not worth the time.