Sivers offers something of a response in the article:
>The guy that stole $9000 from me? My fault. I should have verified his claims.
which could also take the form of:
>My domestic partner abuses me physically? My fault. I shouldn't have entered a relationship with this abusive person, and should have removed myself from the relationship before it escalated to physical violence.
In this manner, you would acknowledge the role that the abusive partner played in the violence, but also acknowledge the steps that you could have taken to prevent being the target of violence.
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Sivers offers something of a response in the article:
>The guy that stole $9000 from me? My fault. I should have verified his claims.
which could also take the form of:
>My domestic partner abuses me physically? My fault. I shouldn't have entered a relationship with this abusive person, and should have removed myself from the relationship before it escalated to physical violence.
In this manner, you would acknowledge the role that the abusive partner played in the violence, but also acknowledge the steps that you could have taken to prevent being the target of violence.