I'm generally encouraging my two high schoolers toward:

- trades

- military service

...or some blend of the two, i.e. SeaBees or Army Corps of Engineers.

White collar/tech chops are fine as far as they go, but know how to swing a hammer or turn a wrench, say I.

Eschew debt; remain sober; stay married (not in the modern, ersatz sense); be a productive member of the community of faith.

Ain't no magic.