Parent of four here, and I've experienced the exact same feeling of being a nag every morning. We ended up getting this (sorry for the Danish link): https://www.piktoplan.dk/products/pakkelosning-morgenrutine — it relieved some of the nagging without screens, but it's still very limiting and not as playful as Attagram (I imagine).

I imagine this is built in English first. But I would definitely consider preordering if my local language (Danish) were available. I believe parents will go quite far to "fix" this "guilt".