I think Apple Arcade is a good compromise for high quality gaming access.

In game purchases are banned. Games can't track you as heavily, so they are lighter on your device. They are some genuinely good games, and you pay with your wallet and play time.

I don't like ads and to be nudged to purchase stuff to be able to kill some time. Game developers need a roof, the ability to pay their bills and eat.

Also, it's a universal membership. macOS and iOS games are all included.