coming back to this, i'm happier now than ever but i do think about what life is going to be like when my boys head off to college. Pretty much all of my interests are shared with them, from favorite coffee shops, to games, hobbies, to even coding. Because of that, money spent on the family should probably count as if it's only spent on me. I sometimes wonder if my identity is tied to closely to theirs, i have no idea what i'm going to do with myself once they are out of the house. I have about 3 years left with my oldest and then another 3 with my youngest, it goes by so fast.
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coming back to this, i'm happier now than ever but i do think about what life is going to be like when my boys head off to college. Pretty much all of my interests are shared with them, from favorite coffee shops, to games, hobbies, to even coding. Because of that, money spent on the family should probably count as if it's only spent on me. I sometimes wonder if my identity is tied to closely to theirs, i have no idea what i'm going to do with myself once they are out of the house. I have about 3 years left with my oldest and then another 3 with my youngest, it goes by so fast.