You gotta make friends. You gotta have kids. That’s the story, man. Tbh a lot of people invite this life upon themselves. “I shouldn’t have to” / “Do you really expect me to” etc etc
I think you lack a complete perspective and are only stating the obvious things. Yeah, some people may invite this upon themselves.
But a lot of others find it incredibly difficult to develop friendships, let alone intimate relationships, in this world, especially in western countries - I could list out the reasons why but this comment will become awfully long.
We should remind ourselves that we don't know everything, we don't see everything, and we should be open to viewing the world from other people's perspective. We'll learn a lot about ourselves and our place in the world that way.
No, if you're lonely and don't want to be, that's your story. If you don't actively try to solve your loneliness, you will, very likely, remain lonely.
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You gotta make friends. You gotta have kids. That’s the story, man. Tbh a lot of people invite this life upon themselves. “I shouldn’t have to” / “Do you really expect me to” etc etc
I think you lack a complete perspective and are only stating the obvious things. Yeah, some people may invite this upon themselves.
But a lot of others find it incredibly difficult to develop friendships, let alone intimate relationships, in this world, especially in western countries - I could list out the reasons why but this comment will become awfully long.
We should remind ourselves that we don't know everything, we don't see everything, and we should be open to viewing the world from other people's perspective. We'll learn a lot about ourselves and our place in the world that way.
thats your story. Its not everyone’s. we are individuals.
No, if you're lonely and don't want to be, that's your story. If you don't actively try to solve your loneliness, you will, very likely, remain lonely.