Some of us want to own some land and not be butted up right against their neighbor. Or have to hear the person next door fucking their spouse or blasting loud music. No thanks.

You could just not butt up to the very edge of your own lot, and everyone else can use their own as they wish. Another option would be to buy the lots around you and not build anything on them.

The thing with NIMBYs is that they want everyone else to pay for their desires.