That's not related to any specific game. It does show up exponentially more in games where you are paired up with an anonymous matchmaking system. The majority of online games on consoles use that type of game finding.

Alternatively, games like Counterstrike or Minecraft are made up of servers that are privately run. Most of these are actively moderated by the owners and/or a consistent group of players. If you don't follow the rules and guidelines of the server you are kicked and banned. It can take a while to find a server you like, but once you do, the gameplay experience is vastly better.