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Successive approximation. The more I move, the better I know what my family likes. Each new move feels slightly less radical than the previous. Both because you're becoming used to the feeling of being an outsider, and because you're honing in on something you like.

That said, also consider the psychological aspect. Perhaps you have a personality that never feels at home, always looking for greener pastures somewhere else. I do. Not sure what to do about it, but it could be that moving won't help, because it's the dream of change that drives you, not an actual dislike for where you are now.

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