Comment on Choosing solitudeComments−nuancebydefault1yFor some reason, after being own my own for a few days, I start to feel sorry for myself, feel nostalgic and don't take very well care of self anymore. So I'm super lucky, privileged for not being alone.−m4631yYou need to overcommit for a while, then try doing it again for a few days.Maybe do it more mindfully the next time? Like do something you have wanted to do alone for a long time, exactly the way you want to.Or instead of eating poorly and staying in, get outside and hike?−dartos1yget outside and hikeGod I would love to, but it’s always 85F+ and either raining or >80% humidity. Its miserable outside.−fragmede1yDo it anyway. Yes it sucks, but push through the suck.−dartos1yOnce in a while I can and do, but the suck makes it hard to do it consistently.I have a treadmill and a big fan in my garage and it’s usable until summertime and that’s the best I got.
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For some reason, after being own my own for a few days, I start to feel sorry for myself, feel nostalgic and don't take very well care of self anymore. So I'm super lucky, privileged for not being alone.
You need to overcommit for a while, then try doing it again for a few days.
Maybe do it more mindfully the next time? Like do something you have wanted to do alone for a long time, exactly the way you want to.
Or instead of eating poorly and staying in, get outside and hike?
God I would love to, but it’s always 85F+ and either raining or >80% humidity. Its miserable outside.
Do it anyway. Yes it sucks, but push through the suck.
Once in a while I can and do, but the suck makes it hard to do it consistently.
I have a treadmill and a big fan in my garage and it’s usable until summertime and that’s the best I got.