My bias: I use PHP all day at work, but I'm also a front end engineer so I do a ton of JS. I do not do any node though.
PHP is a great all around tool, and node is good at one specific thing (basically request routing: node is quick if you are able to route the requests out to asynchronous servers). For most things PHP is going to help you more than node, so I would start there.
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My bias: I use PHP all day at work, but I'm also a front end engineer so I do a ton of JS. I do not do any node though.
PHP is a great all around tool, and node is good at one specific thing (basically request routing: node is quick if you are able to route the requests out to asynchronous servers). For most things PHP is going to help you more than node, so I would start there.