This message is for @paraschopra.

I'm sorry your link got downvoted and killed, it shouldn't have been.

I hope this reaches you: What I wrote isn't hokey self help. It's also not blind faith or following.

We can't know HOW to pursue peace, or discipline in our lives, without first learning WHY.

That's the first change that sets up the rest. Learning to understand peace, and discipline is vital to turning on the light bulb that will let you see your path forward.

I'm not hurt or anything by what you said. But, I am not sure if you were consciously aware of how you just spread doubts instead of clarity yourself.

You didn't offer an alternative, a process, or anything yourself. And I think everyone is capable of that.

I appreciate you doubt what I'm speaking about. Feel free to email me, I will talk to you forever about this, most important, topic in my life.

Over and above my work in life, becoming the most I can by learning about myself is my life's true work.

I'm dead serious. I don't believe in hokey self help shit either.

We all have a compass inside of us, maybe our heart. Finding, learning to read, and follow that compass using our mind and gut is our goal. It's not all logical, or we would be able to think our way out of whatever we get into :)