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The only time I've had a sink full of dirty dishes complete with rotting food and flies is when I was spitefully waiting for my roommate to clean them up because it was "his turn".

You could try going away for 2 weeks.

It won't result in them washing the whole pile, but they will be forced to wash something and realise that it doesn't hurt that much.

There will still be a pile of dirty plates (plus the boxes from the pizzas they ordered for the first week, until they ran out of cash) when you get back, but at least you will see a slight improvement in your roommate's habits.

how about he does all dishes both his and roomates, then figure out other types of chores they can do to balance it out, like mowing lawns and/or grocery shopping. better to focus on results and time spent instead of being right and miserable.

Ultimately, I ended up solving the problem categorically by not having roommates. The other solution is to dump the dirty dishes in his bed.

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