I feel like Im supposed to be schmoozing with them for work to do which I've never had to do before at other jobsc and I'm not really good at.

I would suggest that you hone in on this, and given the size of your company, I would also hazard the suggestion that you ask HR if they have any supplemental training that they can provide to help you grow in that area.

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