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Unless you think that things are always getting better, it is necessarily implied that some things were better in the past.

Compare these two sentences:

Having such a marriage in this day and age is truly a luxury, reserved only for the deepest of lovers.
Having such a marriage is truly a luxury, reserved only for the deepest of lovers.

One contains a positive claim that something is worse now than it was before, which I think invites dispute and is entirely unnecessary anyway. It's a fine sentiment without the judgement.

This particular claim is just ludicrous, though. The idea that marriage is primarily about love and emotional companionship is an extremely modern idea. See Stephanie Coontz, Marriage, A History: How Love Conquered Marriage.

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