Well, I can't find a running version of Metomic on any of your reference sites (maybe you can point me to one), on your own site the script sends several GraphQL queries to your backend when I consent, and also communicates with that before I do (not sure if this is due to other scripts on the page not related to the manager).

Again, this is totally fine, I wouldn't call it "privacy first" though, as it does not systematically minimize information exposed to third parties.