You have a loving family, don’t sell yourself short :)

If there’s one practical takeaway I would offer here for men in general —

Having read this it’ll be much easier to understand why good bras can seem so simple yet be so expensive and fragile to care for and difficult to find.

Bras are maximally frustrating, and there’s nothing really equivalent at all in men’s clothing. Be kind when shopping for them. Help with hand washing them. Be encouraging in appropriate ways.