Maybe this is some problem on a large institution level. For me, every time something I'd done was not correct or I'd failed, it felt very valuable to me that someone noticed and told me and how they wanted it to be. It reinforced in my mind what was good and that what I thought was not was, in fact, not. I always felt way better coming out of an interaction like that.

The worst feeling is when I feel something is going poorly and no one will tell me they think that about my thing.