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Choosing PHP over Python, Perl, and ASP.

Countless hours on #php.

Meeting and talking with a girl I met on #php for hours on end on the phone.

"Dating" online.

Meeting 2 months after we started "dating".

Me moving to another country 3 months after that.

Marrying 6 years later.

Happily married and expecting our second child later this month. =)

You met your love based on a niche common interest/activity--programming in PHP--as opposed to a broad common activity--online dating. Not trying to trivialize anything you said... your story is completely awesome, actually. I just want to point out that even though what you did technically qualifies as "online dating," it's very different from the kind of online dating criticized in this interview!

Oh, I know. However, it's the article and headline that is at fault. Online dating sites are one thing. Meeting online is a completely different thing. =)

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