I'm not the person you asked, but I agree with their post.
It's often hard to have this discussion without it devolving into an argument over "political correctness" [0] so hopefully that can be avoided.
Easiest answer is that the term retarded originally was an acceptable term for people with disabilities, but now has a negative connotation, and when used pejoratively as OP did carries the (possibly unintended) implication that people with disabilities are of less value.
I think Wikipedia entry on Retard (pejorative) [1] is a good summary.
It's also worth mentioning "ableist language" and "ableism" here. [2]
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I'm not the person you asked, but I agree with their post.
It's often hard to have this discussion without it devolving into an argument over "political correctness" [0] so hopefully that can be avoided.
Easiest answer is that the term retarded originally was an acceptable term for people with disabilities, but now has a negative connotation, and when used pejoratively as OP did carries the (possibly unintended) implication that people with disabilities are of less value.
I think Wikipedia entry on Retard (pejorative) [1] is a good summary.
It's also worth mentioning "ableist language" and "ableism" here. [2]
[0] - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Political_correctness
[1] - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Retard_%28pejorative%29
[2] - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ableism