As a millennial, I've fallen into this work martyr trap. After the 2008 recession it was a badge of honor to have a non dead-end job and to always be hustling, to thrive despite the crash and not be a 'loser' who had to move back home. I still can't shake that mentality, and despite how well the market is doing or how good my finances are doing I always feel like being homeless and foreclosed on like my parents is just around the corner