"We don't even know what it is," Valencia said of some men she has encountered around the city. "Is it gay? Is it straight? Is it a friend? Is it a foe? Is it looking for a job? Is it looking for a place to crash?"

Maybe stop referring to guys as "its"? I'd certainly find that disturbing in a man talking about women.

Personally, I'm amused at the assumptions. Men who can't find a partner are somewhat pathetic, but if women can't find a partner of sufficient quality, something's just wrong with the city.